How Do You Find The Male Version Of Yourself?

Let me just say that before I met the love of my life and definitely. “The one”. 2 yrs ago. I was healing from a previous relationship I had given everything that I had and I didn’t think I could love again.

I wasn’t interested in dating. I had to get reacquainted with myself and I started by asking myself some serious questions. like who am I? And how did I get here ? I found the love of my life and here are 5 tips to find yours:

Spend time by yourself after a break up

  • Get to know yourself as individual because you  have been known as a “Us”
  • Try to maintain bonds with friends you acquire during your relationship, let them know that they do not have choose sides.
  • Get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex by boxing up sentimental items and consider giving them to charity.

You needed to know what you want

  • Not just the physical features but also what type of person you want him to be.
  • Have a clear, concise short list (of about 10 things)
  • After making the list”YOU BECOME  THE PERSON ON THE LIST“.

Be Open/Available

  • He could be anywhere and make sure you are not holding on to your ex.
  • Stray away from your usual dating pattern, we tend to select the same  type of man.
  • Learn how to trust.

Know who you are

  • Rediscover who you are
  • Be more comfortable with the women in the mirror.

What type of relationship do you want

  • Define what you want in a relationship
  • Spend quality time really getting  to know your new man
  • Most importantly do not settle under any circumstances.

I want to hear from you, what other  tips would you like to add to the list?

About this Guest Blogger:

K.S.Young has a lifestyle blog: KSYonline.com .As a blogger she is using her blog as a platform to inspire,empower,educate and entertain all while connecting with her growing audience. You can find her on Facebook: KSYonline and Twitter @KSYonline

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