Marrying someone is more than just lovely romance: it’s about merging two lives, and with that comes a number of practical considerations. Where will you live? Do you want children? How will you manage your money? This last...
Read MoreI don’t post much anymore. Mostly because I’m unsure of what to say or how to say it. I live in a state of confusion, and it’s frustrating. But everyday is a learning experience and everyday I’m one step...
Read MoreYesterday was an emotional roller coaster. 2012 came to an end and my husband admitted something I already knew: he was not ready for marriage. I’ve made this speculation from his actions, but for it to come from him, I...
Read MoreIf you bring up counseling to the average man, married or not, you may get quite the reaction. My husband especially. It’s gotten to the point where I don’t even bring it up anymore. Before we got married, I begged...
Read MoreArguments in marriage are natural. All married couples argue once in a while, and at times, it turns out to be a healthy conflict. Healthy conflicts are those that help the couple grow together and as individuals. But how much...
Read MoreI’m sure you’ve heard of the suggestion “never go to bed angry”. I, personally, feel that sometimes that’s not a good idea. If you try to force an issue until you’re no longer angry, you may...
Read MoreHubby and I had a great time away from it all in Las Vegas for our anniversary. However, all good things must come to an end, so we made our way back to reality on the day of our actual anniversary. On our way back, we brought...
Read MoreShocking title, right? Well, it’s not the truth, but let my grandma tell it. My mom informed me yesterday that my grandma has expressed to her that she thinks I love Frankie more than I love Tej. How in the world did she...
Read MoreYesterday, I had a much needed talk with my husband. I had been bottling up and holding on to a few things that had really been bothering me about him, which included the issue I brought up on “You Spent How Much on...
Read MoreI just had a moment where I was really able to reflect on life from July 2010 to February 2012. Living “on my own” for a year and a half was such an amazing experience. Having my own space, my own place, a haven if...
Read MoreThe past couple of months have been interesting financially. Hubby finally got his severance package, we got our deposit back, and we got our income tax. Although moving costs money (storage, last month’s rent, and movers,...
Read MoreIt all started with cookies. That’s how it usually goes, right? Something simple often turned into something representative of something much more. And so the story begins. This past Sunday, my husband, son (who is four months...
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